I’m back on my soft girl shit! This cute ensemble from Enfant Terrible also has shoes & a skirt that can be paired with it. I’m using the Amora Poses from OMY, which all have gentle breathing & animations with them, so as usual, have a little more of a look at those below!
Make it a beautiful day, Spoonies. You’re worth it.
I’ve had a really stressful couple of days in the real world, and it has nothing to do with the day of lurrrve. That was actually kinda nice! I baked cookies & flapjacks for my family and visited them all (while also popping in and doing some ‘admin’ at estate agencies!), it was really lovely, and I’m glad we’re all in a good place with each other again. It does seem as though things are finally starting to get sorted in terms of my housing, at least, I’m not going to be completely thrown out of my current house at any moment soon, I just have the constant looming dread of having to actually do all the leg-work while dealing with an antiquated system that just wants to make me even more bonkers than I already am. Fuck the system, and stuff!
However, a bright spot is always blogging, and the amazing talent of my wonderful sponsors. Big thanks to Palette for this wonderfully girly creation involving a few frills, some adorable bows, a cute collar and some suitably strappy shoes! What more could a girl dream of?
Also worth mentioning – there’s a 50% SALE at the mainstore of Palette, so go grab your fave fatpacks, Spoonies!
Make it a beautiful day, Spoonies. You’re worth it.
All of the things :
Head : LeLUTKA Avalon head Body : eBODY – REBORN Hair : DOUX – Irene Hairstyle Nose Piercings : beary.// stargirl nose ring PUNCH / Nose Piercing / Heart Diamond Tattoos : Lilithe’// Anthousai Tattoos Lilithe’// Hegemone Tattoos Lilithe’// Meliae Tattoos Outfit : Palette – Dasha Set @ Cupid Inc
I’m actually living my Valentine fantasy in this picture, which is quite weird, only because I struggled with this a lot. I’m not sure how many of you might suffer with dysphoria, but I absolutely didn’t feel like myself in this look until AFTER I had edited the picture, which made standing on my platform like this feel really odd to me. I know it’s weird to associate dysphoria with an avatar when you can literally be whatever you want in SL, but when you’re me, and often don’t know who you want to be today, tomorrow or the next day, it’s actually quite a regular occurrence. I’m in no way associating with RL dysphoria. I’m sure what I experience is very low level in comparison, and I have nothing but compassion for those dealing with the implications of having such a debilitating feeling within their own unrecognizable bodies, where SL might be the only place they can really feel like themselves. All that said, this is actually one of my favourite upper body shots I’ve done for a while. Sometimes it’s worth pushing through the discomfort, to find a new way to love yourself – and that goes for all of you on your journeys too. Follow your hearts, Spoonies, and if you’re struggling to find yourself just rest for a moment safe in the fact that you ARE in there, and worthy of love in all versions of yourself. ❤
Make it a beautiful day, Spoonies. You’re worth it. xoxo.
Kaleidoscope. 