I’m going slightly more bonkers than usual today.
I really feel like i’m evolving, and I keep having moments of “omg is this the right track?” because I’ve never been so determined and actually stood for anything before. I tried the dating thing for a while and honestly, I might as well have not bothered because it would have saved me a massive amount of effort and energy with people who just aren’t on the same wavelength as I am.
Part of the reason i decided to visit the dating agencies was because in my mind, there would be more people who were serious about finding 1. people to hang with and 2. something deeper than a couple’a’weeks with a cute avie until they realize they don’t get on.. and for a minute, I thought I’d walked away with at least some decent friendships… until the guy who had been telling me how wonderful I was and how he was catching feelings for me on a Monday ended up partnering my self-proclaimed best friend (of two weeks) after she’d just split up with her partner of 8 weeks or so and I told her what a twat she was being the following Sunday.
Apparently, you’re only ‘cool, blunt and honest’ when you’re cool blunt and honest about other people. Okay.
I don’t have the energy to be nice for the sake of being nice, and if you’re seriously gonna be with someone who was with someone else less than even a month ago – are you with them because you like them, or because you can’t bear to be alone?
Yeah, this is a shady as fuck post, but excuse me if I’m bitter and unable to believe a word that comes outta anyone’s mouth for a while!
In other news! Check out some of the out of this world items available from Culprit & Miss Chelsea!
The Culprit Space Probe (lol, cryyyying at the name!) is available in two versions and they’re literally the most adorable thing! It has a bunch of really ridiculous poses for couples (I use that term lightly, and if you demo you’ll see why!) and singles. Definitely worth a giggle!
The Miss Chelsea Brin set comes in their regular awesome colour palette with a selection of both plain and phrase versions of the tee. It’s available at N21, now!
Make it a beautiful day, Spoonies. You’re so fucking worth it. xoxo